Shovelling

I am sure that someone 

has looked at me 

and wanted to say that 

once or twice 

in my life.

I'm Yours

Pretty much

 every summer there is a song that becomes an earworm for me. A song that I cannot get out of my head. Sometimes everyone else has the same song in their heads because it is popular at the time. This time it is a song that is a few years old. But I am enjoying it. So very much.

New fan of Jason Mraz.

I'm Yours

Jason Mraz

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot I melted
I fell right through the cracks
And now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my best-est
And nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn,
To win some or learn some

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We are just one big family
And it's our God-forsaken* right to be loved loved loved loved loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

D-d-do do you, but do you, d-d-do
But do you want to come on
Scooch on over closer dear
And I will nibble your ear

Oh oh
I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I been saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find the sky is yours
So please don't please don't please don't
There's no need to complicate
'Cause our time is short
This, oh this, this is our fate, I'm yours

* Shortly after recording I'm Yours, I changed 'God forsaken right to be loved,' to 'God intended right to be loved.' I'm not religious and nature alone is my guru, but I felt that the Universal Life Force that propels us, which many understand as their God, would not abandon us to give us a right to be loved.May 6, 2013

Songwriters: Jason Thomas Mraz

I'm Yours lyrics © Goo Eyed Music

the rest of the serenity prayer

Probably already posted something like this one

playground duty

some days are worster than others

an article by Jennifer Aniston in the Huffington Post - Well said

 For The Record

Let me start by saying that addressing gossip is something I have never done.  I don’t like to give energy to the business of lies, but I wanted to participate in a larger conversation that has already begun and needs to continue. Since I’m not on social media, I decided to put my thoughts here in writing.

For the record, I am not pregnant. What I am is fed up. I’m fed up with the sport-like scrutiny and body shaming that occurs daily under the guise of “journalism,” the “First Amendment” and “celebrity news.”

Every day my husband and I are harassed by dozens of aggressive photographers staked outside our home who will go to shocking lengths to obtain any kind of photo, even if it means endangering us or the unlucky pedestrians who happen to be nearby. But setting aside the public safety aspect, I want to focus on the bigger picture of what this insane tabloid ritual represents to all of us.

If I am some kind of symbol to some people out there, then clearly I am an example of the lens through which we, as a society, view our mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, female friends and colleagues. The objectification and scrutiny we put women through is absurd and disturbing. The way I am portrayed by the media is simply a reflection of how we see and portray women in general, measured against some warped standard of beauty. Sometimes cultural standards just need a different perspective so we can see them for what they really are — a collective acceptance... a subconscious agreement. We are in charge of our agreement. Little girls everywhere are absorbing our agreement, passive or otherwise. And it begins early. The message that girls are not pretty unless they’re incredibly thin, that they’re not worthy of our attention unless they look like a supermodel or an actress on the cover of a magazine is something we’re all willingly buying into. This conditioning is something girls then carry into womanhood. We use celebrity “news” to perpetuate this dehumanizing view of females, focused solely on one’s physical appearance, which tabloids turn into a sporting event of speculation. Is she pregnant? Is she eating too much? Has she let herself go? Is her marriage on the rocks because the camera detects some physical “imperfection”?

The objectification and scrutiny we put women through is absurd and disturbing.

I used to tell myself that tabloids were like comic books, not to be taken seriously, just a soap opera for people to follow when they need a distraction. But I really can’t tell myself that anymore because the reality is the stalking and objectification I’ve experienced first-hand, going on decades now, reflects the warped way we calculate a woman’s worth.

This past month in particular has illuminated for me how much we define a woman’s value based on her marital and maternal status. The sheer amount of resources being spent right now by press trying to simply uncover whether or not I am pregnant (for the bajillionth time... but who’s counting) points to the perpetuation of this notion that women are somehow incomplete, unsuccessful, or unhappy if they’re not married with children. In this last boring news cycle about my personal life there have been mass shootings, wildfires, major decisions by the Supreme Court, an upcoming election, and any number of more newsworthy issues that “journalists” could dedicate their resources towards.

Here’s where I come out on this topic: we are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies. That decision is ours and ours alone. Let’s make that decision for ourselves and for the young women in this world who look to us as examples. Let’s make that decision consciously, outside of the tabloid noise. We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own “happily ever after” for ourselves.

We are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies.

I have grown tired of being part of this narrative. Yes, I may become a mother some day, and since I’m laying it all out there, if I ever do, I will be the first to let you know. But I’m not in pursuit of motherhood because I feel incomplete in some way, as our celebrity news culture would lead us all to believe. I resent being made to feel “less than” because my body is changing and/or I had a burger for lunch and was photographed from a weird angle and therefore deemed one of two things: “pregnant” or “fat.” Not to mention the painful awkwardness that comes with being congratulated by friends, coworkers and strangers alike on one’s fictional pregnancy (often a dozen times in a single day).

From years of experience, I’ve learned tabloid practices, however dangerous, will not change, at least not any time soon. What can change is our awareness and reaction to the toxic messages buried within these seemingly harmless stories served up as truth and shaping our ideas of who we are. We get to decide how much we buy into what’s being served up, and maybe some day the tabloids will be forced to see the world through a different, more humanized lens because consumers have just stopped buying the bullshit.

did laundry today

but my laundry pile never looked like this 

I love how the colours just work.

Even when someone does not have a turquoise face in real life.

I think John Lennon also said it.

come to meetin' time

Canada

Holy Ship Batman! from a whole other perspective than the 12.3.16 one

tree fun

picture this

guardian angle

So not accurate in terms of theology 

but it made me laugh 

well look at you

stress?

I Still Love Lucy

I Still Love Lucy

Hello is Statue?

If I had a plate I would paint in the morning.

If I had a plate

and some paint

and then I need something that I want to paint

Then some talent..

oh yeah. 

Forgot about that.

Oh well

Hang on a little longer

 Winter will be over soon

 I hope

Please

And now... Even Another Incredible Art Exhibition

I went down 

to the McMaster Innovation building 

to see some art.

I knew that my very talented cousin Arlene 

had some of her beautiful art work on display there...

 But, what is that I see?

More art just around the corner 

from Arlene's beautiful display...

There it is! On the wall!

Why it is my very own art!

Quel suprize!

One of my art fans 

must have contributed to the exhibition 

without my knowledge...

So I thought that I had better pose with my work.

The review is posted below.

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Here she goes again.

Anita Eleveld has,

once again,

created a masterpiece.

Titled “The Unchanging Moods of Apple”

Branching out her artistic horizons

Anita has,

in this exhibition,

tackled the ever challenging 'Still Life'

Tree-ting her subject with ap-peel,

she is blossom-ing into a bud-ding artist.

We look forward to the harvest

of future endeavours.

The pick of the crop,

McMaster is proud

(if not slightly confused)

to display this work of art.

Meryl Rocks

Meryl Streep's Acceptance Speech 

of a Golden Globe for a special award. 

Well said, Meryl, well said.

Books I have read in 2016 Part 2

 I was given this one a while ago. 

It was good.

Not always a fan of 'Christian Fiction' 

as it is often shmaltzy but this one was pretty good.

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 I was given this one a long while ago.

I did not enjoy it.

It was based on a faith group 

that I did not feel was represented accurately. 

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 Another PBS personality who I like to watch 

but like less to read.

Funny lady though.

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 Another Oprah Book Club pick.

Liked this one.

I can tell because I can remember some of it.

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 Wow. A great book.

Gripping and meaningful. Full of imagination.

The movie is coming out soon.

Might want to go see it.

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 Another Cookson book.

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 Another Oprah book club book.

Liked this one better than some 

but less than others.

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 Put me in a Christmasy frame of mind.

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 Another book from Atheist Penn Jillette, of whom I am a fan.

I listen to his podcast. I really like his essays.

Certainly do not agree with everything he says 

but I have learned plenty about 

how to be a better Christian from him.

Maybe not the goal he started out with.

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Mostly shmaltzy but there was one story I loved in here.

About pastors and too many cucumbers.

Loved that story which had some lines 

that I wished that I had written.

Most of the rest of the book was wayyy to corny for me.

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