Sunday, July 5, 2015

what do I want?


vbs

Tomorrow begins VBS
I am only there the first three days
But I am looking forward to it.
Feel mostly prepared.
Enjoying, very much, working with Femke on the Parent Group.

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

gratitude week 2

Spouse or Significant Other.


Putting off, somewhat, this task because I am afraid that my words will not do him justice.


I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for almost 35 years. 
We met when I was 15  (that sounds pretty 'childhood' to me)

I love him for many different reasons 
but I suppose the best one is because he loves me back.
He has always worked very hard 
to provide the kind of life that we have.

We decided that we wanted to have lots of kids, 
if that was what God had in store for us.
I suppose He did because we ended up with 6 children. 

We share many things - some of which are as follows: 
our faith
the love for our family
our queen sized  - memory-foam with Alzheimer's - bed
a pretty good sense of humour and lots of laughter
the occasional toothbrush


This is not to say that we have a perfect relationship.
We do not always express our love to each other 
in the way that the other can best appreciated it.
We can both be selfish.
But I am pretty sure that he is the better person.

He makes the decisions for our family 
that have pretty much always 
been made with integrity and love.

I love to make him laugh.

We have been through a lot of things together 
(some not so great - some pretty awesome)
and 
I think that we both are the better 
for having what we have.

I am sure looking forward to the years ahead.
I love you Martin Henry Joldersma